Friday 10 July 2020

I had sex with my best friends ex gf, and now he's coming over to play video games tonight. How do I tell him?

Little background, they dated in highschool 4 years ago and she's since moved on. He hasn't... I used to work with this girl back in highschool and we were pretty close, but I never wanted a relationship since they had dated. We lost contact for a few years and met up with each other recently. One thing led to another, and now I feel horrible. I do want a relationship with this girl now, but I want to keep my friendship too.

How do I tell him this happened and ask his permission to be in a relationship?

Edit: this got way more attention than I ever thought possible. I can't reply to everyone and everyone seems split on I'm terrible or love before friends. I appreciate all the comments and I'm dead set on telling my friend. He deserves to know from me, even if he never wants to talk to me again.

Edit: I'm sick of people calling this girl a whore. I've read your comments, and I get it if you want to call me a shitty friend or whatever. But you don't know shit about this girl, so don't call her a whore or say anything bad about her. She is not in the wrong here and nothing anyone can say will change my mind about that. Leave the hate directed at me.

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