Last night I got a dick snap from an old hook up and I thought it would be lovely to share why it ended.
I was “dating” this guy (well call him Caleb) for about 3 months. We were never exclusive, nor did we ever do anything but hook up and pillow talk.
One day Caleb let me know he really preferred women who shave their pubic hair completely. I’m more of a trim-it-up gal myself. In the moment I thought nothing of it. I brushed it off, and of course, did nothing.
Fast forward about a week later, we’re hooking up, he pulls off my panties and verbally goes “uh.. I thought I told you i like it shaved”
Me: “It? You mean my vagina?” Caleb: “uh yeah” Me: “okay well, I don’t” Caleb: “yeah, but don’t you want me to be into this?”
At this point I was stunned. Here is this man, naked in my bed, with a hard dick—moments from inserting it—implying that he is not into it. Please keep in mind we had been sleeping together for months.
I smiled, got up and started putting my clothes back on. He starts with a “ah c’mon whys it gotta be like that”
I told him that if he wasn’t into it, then there was nothing I could do. I am not comfortable completely shaved, nor am I interested in having sex with someone who isn’t into me. He starting telling me how sexy it is when a vagina is clean shaven...how sexy my vagina COULD be if I just shaved.
I was fully dressed by then, sitting cross legged at my dorm room desk—just listening to this naked man make a case about my vaginas potential beauty.
I then asked if he could get dressed and said this.
“Listen Caleb. My vagina is beautiful, it is sexy, and up until a week ago, was enough for you to get off. If that is no longer the case—I can’t do anything about it. I can’t shave it, because that would mean making myself uncomfortable just so your dick can get a little harder, and honestly, I don’t feel like doing that for you”
He left, and I ghosted him.
Ps.. I replied to his snap with a photo of my fluffy dog and said “sorry my vagina still looks like this, you wouldn’t be interested”
EDIT:
It’s totally okay to prefer a shaved vagina. As a woman. As a man. The moral of the story is you don’t get to shame people for their preferences, and you can always choose to respect your own body before someone else’s desire of your body ♥️ thanks for all the love!
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