As the title suggests I just found out that my fiancé is wealthy and I mean ridiculously so. He proposed to me and then a few days ago he started talking about prenups and I laughed at that saying “broke people don’t have prenups” and he was like “who said I was broke?”
Which then led to him explaining to me that he was “comfortable”.
The problem isn’t that he comes from money,has money it’s that I am angry that I never knew and that he could’ve helped us pay for our dog’s surgery by paying for it but no I had to sell the only thing of worth I had in my life in order to finance our dogs medical bills.
I have literally been providing for us because he’s an aspiring writer and I wanted to help him in his dreams. I pay all the bills and provide for us both.
I don’t get why he hid it?! Like I get him not telling someone they’re wealthy after the first couple dates/months but you’d think after the 4 years we’ve been together and supporting him that I would’ve known!
I’m just trying to make sure that I am not angry for selfish or materialistic reasons. I grew up poor and I am now part of the working poor so my view on money and wealth might be skewed.
I feel like he used me this whole time and that I had to work crazy hours and work a second job occasionally to support us when he could’ve so easily taken care of us both or even just paid his share.
Edit: for those asking he has full access to his inheritance, he’s always had access to it.
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